Another Me

Ga kerasa udah sebulan aja jalanin yang namanya LDR. Dan bahkan aku sampe ngerayain monthsary yg ke sepuluh di ldr. Sedih sih, tapi ya pengorbanan ga sia-sia kan? Yg paling penting itu PERCAYA :). Dan mudah-mudahan Tuhan memberkati hubungan kami ini!

Kalian pasti tau kan apa LDR itu? Ya iya pasti Long Distance Relationship. Tapi maksud aku bukan itu. Yang aku maksud meaning yang sebenarnya dari LDR tersebut.

Understand how negativity can become an (unintended) entrenched part of your life. Human beings are hardwired to avoid danger and to seek pleasure. If we allow the danger avoidance aspect of our thinking processes to become unbalanced by being too risk averse, too apprehensive or too reluctant to give things a go, we can suffer from a propensity to worry and feel anxious more often than not. Coupled with the fact that how we view the world and interact with it affects how the world responds to us, if we choose to highlight the negativity, then we tend to view most events in the same light, giving the negative greater meaning than the positive things that happen within and to us. In fact, a brain that has become so used to thinking negatively may cease to see positive events or to feel positively at all after a time because it simply translates everything in the worried, anxious and negative ways it has become habituated to. A negative person will often choose to see a setback where a positive person will see an opportunity. But don't despair––every person is able to strengthen the positive side of him- or herself and that's the purpose of the rest of this article.